Five Functions of A Faithful Family-1
With next week being Father's day and I having missed Mothers' day here
I wanted to start this morning looking at the whole family as a unit of
faithfulness. It is frequently stated that the family is a microcosm of
the world, of government, of church, really the family serves as the
smallest building block of any social structure. The quality then of
that building block is important.
One of the features of Haitian living that sticks out almost
immediately when you enter the country is that every structure is made
of either poured concrete or concrete blocks. But it's not the same
kind of concrete blocks that we would use here. Oh, they might look the
same â€“ but they are not.
In fact a regular bag of concrete be about 2/3 of a cubic foot.
Haitians will add sand and gravel to make it stretch to about 3 cubic
feet (no, I'm not kidding.) The result is that a wall of blocks will
break with much less force. That's one reason why OMS has already
started making their own bricks in preparation for building the new
Emmaus Seminary location.
Likewise for us. If we want a solid country, a solid government or more
directly a well built and well functioning church than we need to
construct it with well built families. We want to build the very best
bricks we can.
So today we start a series I've titled, "Five Functions Of A Faithful
Family" and we're going to investigate What Should A Christian Family
Look Like? How should each member of the family function in relation to
before we can really dig into our topic we need to find a starting
point. To do that we have to start at the foundation of the family
itself. It might look briefly like we're starting outside of the
family; but we're really starting with the head of the family Jesus
So starting there let's look at 1 Corinthians 11:3 which outlines God's
pattern of leadership in the home.
"But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and
the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ." (1 Co
More than just the pattern of leadership however, we see something else
going on. If we start at the end we see that God the Father is the head
of God the Son. Immediately we're introduced with a need to start
defining some doctrines. Since this scripture is in many ways the start
of our series we need to investigate it's impact on the relationship
between husband and wife. But before we can really do that we have to
investigate it's implications in the trinity.
And if you'll forgive me for putting the cart before the horse I'll
start with my conclusion and then return to the beginning. Are you
ready? Because this is a conclusion that we don't come to naturally â€“
it really does flow from scripture. And it really does fight against
what likes to settle in our hearts.
Here's my conclusion:
Headship Does Not Imply Superiority & Neither does Submission demand inferiority.
need to look into the doctrine of the trinity in order to understand
what's going on here. So let's start real quickly with
1 The Deity of God.
For this, let's go back to another text,
which is familiar or at least will become familiar and that is the
SH'MA in Deuteronomy 6:4.
"â€œHear, O Israel! The Lord is our God, the Lord is one! " (Dt 6:4,
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The lesson of the text is primarily that there is no other God than the
One true God! Israel herself and we by extension who share now in the
blessings of Israel by our adoption as sons â€“ we are to have no God
Throughout the text of Scripture God is God and there is no other. The
new testament does not introduce a different God â€“ for God does not
change. He is the same God forever and ever amen! I want to very
quickly prove to you if I can the full Deity or to put it in my own
words the full GODNESS of the FATHER, the SON and the SPIRIT.
We call them the Godhead because it is the only way we can attempt to
communicate the Godhood or the "Godness" of God.
For the Deity of God we could take and make a very long list but I'd
like instead to focus on just a few aspects or we'll be here till
Let us agree that if God is at least described in the Scriptures as ETERNAL, CREATOR, OMNICIENT (All Knowing), OMNIPRESENT (Everywhere Present), OMNIPOTENT (All powerful) and SAVIOR. At minimum we should be able to find all three members of the Godhead described in these terms, and we can!
So let's power-walk through the Scriptures.
2 The Eternality of God
The Father is Eternal: Romans 16:26
"but now is manifested, and by the Scriptures of the prophets,
according to the commandment of the eternal God, has been made known to
all the nations, leading to obedience of faith; "
The Son is Eternal: John 1:1.
"In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word
was God. " (Jn 1:1, NASB95)
The Spirit is Eternal: Hebrews 9:14.
"how much more will the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit
offered Himself without blemish to God, cleanse your conscience from
dead works to serve the living God? " (Heb 9:14, NASB95).
3 The Creativity of God
To prove that God is creator we need
nothing less than to go back to Genesis 1:1. Where we see God Creating.
Together with John 1:3, ("All things came into being through Him, and
apart from Him nothing came into being that has come into being. " (Jn
1:3, NASB95)) Colossians 1:13-ff is a wonderful section describing the
deity of Jesus but it is verse 16 ("For by Him all things were created,
both in the heavens and on earth, visible and invisible, whether
thrones or dominions or rulers or authoritiesâ€”all things have been
created through Him and for Him. He is before all things, and in Him
all things hold together. " (Col 1:16-17, NASB95)))that should grab our
attention as it describes Jesus as the Creator.
Notice the certitude of the statement that NOTHING that has been
created was created without Jesus creating it. That means that GOD in
Genesis 1:1 is talking about God the Father creating with the WORD of
God the Son. And then for the SPIRIT's creative activity we go back to
Genesis 1:2 where the Spirit of God is HOVERING over the waters in
preparation of it's formation after it's divine creation.
4 The Omniscience of God- God knows everything (Without Reservation!)
Father is Omniscient: 1 John 3:20 declares that God is greater than our
heart's which sometimes falsely accuse us and God the Father knows all
things. And Psalm 147:5 declares "Great is our Lord and abundant in
strength; His understanding is infinite."
The Son is Omniscient: At the end of John (21:17) Peter acknowledges to
Jesus that He knows all things. And Colossians 2:2-3 declares that
Jesus contains "â€¦all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge."
The Spirit is Omniscient: "For to us God revealed them through the
Spirit; for the Spirit searches all things, even the depths of God. For
who among men knows the thoughts of a man except the spirit of the man
which is in him? Even so the thoughts of God no one knows except the
Spirit of God. " (1 Co 2:10-11, NASB95) reminds us that the SPIRIT
knows and searches the depths of God. â€“ thus as the father is
Omniscient â€“ so also is the Spirit of God.
5 The Omnipresence of God
This doesn't mean that God is
everywhere in the sense that as I move I'm somehow stepping through
God. It means that everything and every place in all of the universe is
equally in front of Him â€“ so that there is nothing done that is not
seen and no place from which we may hide from Him because in that sense
God is indeed present everywhere there is a place to be.
With that in mind we see that The Father is Omnipresent: Jer. 23:24
"â€œCan a man hide himself in hiding places So I do not see him?â€
declares the Lord. â€œDo I not fill the heavens and the earth?â€
declares the Lord. "
The Son is Omnipresent: Eph 1:23; 4:10 each declare that Christ fills
everything and Matthew 18:20 is a familiar passage which teaches that
wherever Christians come together in his name, he is there with us.
The Spirit is Omnipresent Ps 139:7-12 declares that there is nowhere we
can go to get away from God's Spirit.
6 The Omnipotence of God
The Father is All powerful as we see
in Genesis 17:1 where God tells Abraham "I am God Almighty". (El
The Son is All powerful as he is called "The power of God" in 1
Corinthians 1:24. And the Spirit of God himself is Omnipotent in Romans
15:19 where it is the POWER of the Spirit that confirms the gospel
which itself is the POWER of God to save those who believe (Rom. 1:16)
7 The Salvation Work of God
The Father and the Son are both
declared our savior and the Spirit is the agent of regeneration and
renewal in our salvation in Titus 3:4-6.
Titus 3:4-6 But when the kindness of God our Savior and His love for
mankind appeared, He saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have
done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing of
regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit, whom He poured out upon
us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, "
So as we return to our text in 1 Corinthians 11:3 and see the Son
submitting to the Father and we acknowledge the full Deity or "Godness"
of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit we learn this important
lesson that forms the foundation of faithful families:
That headship neither implies superiority of the leader nor does it
demand inferiority of the submissive person. Jesus is not inferior to
the Father but He is submissive to Him.
In the Godhead God the Father gives the orders, Jesus the Son of God
submits to the Father and Jesus asks the Father and the Son and the
Father sends the Holy Spirit who's work is to glorify the Father
through the son. â€“ and we talk to the Father in the power of the Holy
Spirit through the sacrifice of the Son.
What happens in the Godhead is a pattern of what is supposed to happen
in the family. And that is why it's so important to Satan that the
family fail. And that is why it is so vital to us as Christians that
â€“ whether it's just husband and wife or also children â€“ our
families need to reflect the nature and Character of God in terms of
Headship â€“ submission and obedience and even glorification. For the
nature of God is a model of a faithful family.
Let us pray that God in his grace will start moving us towards a better
understanding of our own roles in the family and let's pray that God
will grant us humble hearts that will receive and obey his word in our